TRYING TO CONCEIVE WITH NO LUCK! DEPRESSED PLEASE HELP!
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BRITTANIA - July 14

OK HERES MY STORY. IM 22 ALMOST 23. MY BF IS 20. WE HAVE BEEN TOGEATHER FOR FOUR YEARS. I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED KIDS AND JUST RESENTLY HE TOLD ME HE WANTS TO TTC NOW. WE HAVE BEEN HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX TOGEATHER OVER THE LAST FOUR YEARS AND NOT ONE PREGNANCY. NOW WE ARE TRYING AND I WANT TO KNOW IF MAYBE THERE IS A REASON WE HAVE NOT CONCEIVED YET. MY PERIODS ARE REGULAR ALWAYS HAVE BEEN. I DONT THINK I HAVE PCOS AND IM FAMILIAR WITH IT CAUSE MY COUSIN HAS IT. I DO HAVE TYPE 2 DIABETES FOR THE LAST TWO YEARS AND ITS GONE UNTREATED FOR THE LAST 7 MONTHS. I WEIGHT 263 LBS. MY BF IS A SMOKER OF WEED AND CIGGARETTS. IM TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT TO HELP WITH THE DIABETES. I HAVE NO MED INSURANCE RIGHT NOW BUT AM TRYING SO THAT I CAN TREAT MY DIABETES. MY BF IS WILLING TO STIP SMOKING SO THAT WE CAN CONCEIVE AND PLANS TO NOT START AGAIN. MY BF WAS TOLD HE SHOULD BE ON ANTI DEPRESSENTS BUT HE DOESNT WANT TO TAKE THEM. WITH ALL THIS SAID WHAT CAN WE DO TO HELP THE PROCESS? ANY IDEAS ON WHY WE HAVENT CONCEIVED YET? ANY ADVICE? ALSO PLEASE THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME. PLEASE DONT USE THIS FORMUM TO BAD TALK ME, MY CHIOCES OR ANY ONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER. SIMPLY PUT IF YOU DONT HAVE SOMETHING NICE TO SAY DONT SAY IT AT ALL! THANK YOU AND I LOOK FORWARD TO THE HELP

 

mel - July 14

hi, Britttania. my ex was also smokin pot and ciggaretts for almost the four years we were together, and i was not on bc but i also smoked ciggarettes. the only time i got pg was when he had quit smoking for six months, i stopped smoking at about 4 months prior. do you know when you ovulate? if not check out babyzone.com they have a calender that will tell you when is a good time to get pg. i hope this helps you. good luck

 

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