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Dreama- I didn't know they could tell you that you were too young for anything! I thought it went by how long you have been trying! Can you try another dr?

Thank you for your support. I have been struggling with this for years. It just upsets me and its hard when its family. I recently quit one of my three jobs and will have more time this summer to spend with their kids. And maybe they can see how to be a parent. If things do not improve I will call social services. Thanks again guys. PS. I do have a degree in education and have worked for social services. I do know that they probably will not be removed from the home. I am hoping a suprise inspection will scare them into being better parents.

Hi KC. Good luck! :-) All you can do is pray.

Hi Dreama. I agree with Stacey. Your doctor shouldn't tell you that you're too young for anything! Are you in the US? I would try to find a new (more supportive) doctor.

I agree Stacey & Melissa. I'm stationed in Heidelberg, Germany(due to military :() ) I was referred by Military doc to see a german RE. He told me normally he has older women in late 30's. I was like :O. Okkkkk whatever. But if my insurance is paying for IVF you have to do it, he said of course. But he suggested that I try normally due to age. And since my laparoscopy & hysteroscopy following HSG he said I have a chance. But what chance??? I am still trying. Maybe I am not trying enough. But I've tried everything in the book. Hips leveled on pillow for 30 min. Handstands LOL, everyday BD, every other day BD, you name it! I had a dream last night it was so odd, because I saw the most beautiful child and I saw my husband being so loving and joyful. I had a child and she was a miracle. I remember having her through a IVF i believe. And I saw her face and everything she had the most beautifullest green eyes OMG. green or something simular. GOD what would I do to have a baby. We all need Joy in our life. I hate hearing people say its hard and expensive. Look I know I am fit to have a child tell that to prostitues, molesters, crackheads, abusers, etc. Ladies we can do this. What does it takes to be a mother? to celebrate mothers day? to hold your joy in your arms? What the hell :( So sorry ladies I am hurting right now. That dream felt so real to bad it wasnt true. Maybe theres still light at the end of the tunnel.*+*++babydust ladies*+*+*+*

Dreama- can you talk to him and try to come to a compromise about how long you should try on your own before he helps. Maybe he will say only a few months- (although I really feel you shouldn't have to wait...but I know some dr.'s want you to wait for atleast a year before they do anything.)

On a different note, my dr. tested me for PCOS, I'll find out next Friday if I have it.

Hi Dreama. I was about to suggest the same thing as Stacey. Maybe you should only agree to maybe 6 months max of trying on your own since you had your surgeries. Let us know. :-)

i am so sick of thinking about this but i think about it every day i see babies every where and have convinced myself it is never going to happen i hope it is all mental and not womens intuition i have had so many problems i feel like i am being punished too so many people i have met through life are awful mothers yet they seem to get pg by accident more than once it just does not make sense to me!!!!!

Oh we have another Crystal! Hi Crystal. We all feel the same way. Dont worry just trust in the good lord he will bring us our little bundles of joy in his timing.

i hope so finding this site has been very helpfull ty crystal for responding and i hope you are right

Hey Stacey, well yeah he knows that I been trying for a very long time and he also did the surgery to explore more since my other docs wouldnt do nothing but make me try. So far I will see more on this situation for sure. I am tired and I've been throgh so much stress over this. I even have anxiety attacks due to crying and getting myself upset yrs back. I agree Crysta I am with ya all the way. I feel just as you do and it hurts to see such things. I dont wanna think I am getting punished anymore. Its only hurting me. Depression, stress and feeling lonely. What would I do to be blessed with a miracle.

Mr T, I see you need a life and could atleast give a little sympathy. You really need a life, I wish I could report your dumb ass. Sorry ladies what a dork.

Ladies, we'll be getting unwanted attention from children like "Mr. T" for a while. A comedy website (www.somethingawful.com) brought attention to the pregnant teens forum. Somehow, these guys find it funny that teenage girls are pregnant and wondering what to do now. And of course, there are the links on the side of the page which have brought these idiots to us. Stay strong, girls. We don't need the extra stress so let's ignore these kids.

I agree totally, its so sad but anyone got any good news lately or getting closer to succeeding? take care ladies :)

hey girls, apparently I missed something...Hope everyone is ok. No news here...only on cd 8- so not even close to ovulating yet :( It'll be a long wait!

cd 7 here, not close either, but you know something strange happen to my buddy, she got pregnant right after af :o I dont understand. If one can get pregnant after period what else is new? She is now 7 weeks wow. She told me she didnt think about ovulation. weird huh. My other friend of mine said she had two (2) menstrual cycle before knowing she was pregnant. wow