How can I overcome his "problem"?
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 | als - November 15 |
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My boyfriend and i want a baby A LOT but can't seem to have one. we're young and have a healthy sex life but he smokes weed and drinks often...i know that this affects his sperm but is there anything I can do to overcome this problem? he doesn't want to give it up because "he wants to have fun"...sounds bad but we really want a baby - i will do anything for one!!
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 | j - November 15 |
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Are you planning on getting married? Be sure you're ready to spend your entire life with someone before you have a baby. Also, could he be a devoted and involved dad if he's off drinking and smoking weed lots? You don't want to put yourself in a position where he's off "having fun" all the time and you're stuck at home caring for a baby on your own. Maybe wait until he's ready or find a more devoted man.
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| als - November 15 |
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we are planning on getting married...i know where you are coming from with the concern of him being a good dad but i know him - we've been together awhile - and he'd never leave me on my own with his baby...he's a wonderful person...yes, he wants to have fun but he's 22 and is willing to stop once we knows we're gonna have a baby
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before trying to have a child or a life with him! Trust me I used drugs for 15 years its a terrible life and his usage will destroy you and anyone else who tries to love him.
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and you want this guy for a father.. please reconsider...
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Hi ALS, where are you from?
I used to be with someone exactly the same, and we did want children. It is harder to conceive, try pointing out to him that it will reduce your chance of conceiving. At least ask him to cut down? That alone can help. Shout out if you want someone to listen or I can give you my email address.
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| als - November 18 |
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thanks so much nicki...i talked to him about cutting down and he agreed to do that after i pointed out he'd have to cut way down if we ended up having a baby...i'd love to talk more to you!!
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I understand what its like to want a baby. I also understand how hard a drug to stop weed is. My email is [email protected]. Email me whenever you like or leave another message here ok.
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 | . - November 19 |
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I'm picturing you going into labor with a drunk/high man there beside you in the hospital room. I hope to hell he'll at least give it up while your pregnant!
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