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Hey Amy, I missed your post last night. Something is not connecting when you talk to him about a baby. You really need to tell him all your feelings and expect the same from him. Let him know that you don't want him to think about it, but that you need a decision because the anxiety is killing you. Let him know how saddened you are about the fact that you're not already pregnant. Something's not connecting in your conversations.

Thanks Mel!!:) I think we are just sick up picking up her slack...she wants to talk to him all the time..but to be frank I think it is for the worse!! Look at everthing he is going through,because of her and when we tell her about all of it and say I think the trip did more harm then good and the phone calls are more harm then good how can I decide what to do?? She says he has to know that people move away and he has to go through it...Ya" at Fucking 2 1/2 years old, can you tell I'm pist off about all of this...me and steve could of stayed in Florida this hole time...NO instead we moved back so she can be with her first grandchild! And the thanks we get is you have your life and I have to live mine....I did not ask for you guys to move back....I think she needs a wake up call....stevie can lose his nanna becauese of the MS she was really bad last year...her family his not happy about this at all..they think she has made the biggest mistake...Steve said that he is used to it she can be very selfish he said and he has had alot of men in the picture sense is dads death...this is Bobs life (her boyfriend) not hers....the fact that she even has to keep asking him about marriage is a clue!! And you can see why I have problems people have always let me down..O' ya one more thing..when I tell her he is really missing her, she says well see if my sister will take him or your mom maybe..why should all these people have to make him feel better because of her??SHe did this...And before the move even came about..he was looking for work all over except MI...and she told us that she don't think she will be moving with him..then one day we get a call saying he got a job in NC and she is going she can not pass up this oppurtunity...How do I handle this???

Mel I sent u an e-mail to your hotmail...and your work.....I truly hope your okay..please e-mail me so we can talk ...((Hugs)) miss

Sorry Milissa. I've been swamped today. I will check hotmail now. Didn't get anything at work though. Maybe I should say something to the it people.

OK, question, unprotected sex many times last Sat evening...this last Monday had the thick mucus--the consistency of egg whites, and did not have any on Tues. Back to normal? Chances good pregnant? Not? What do you think? Help girls. Thanks.

Hi Jen. It sounds like you could have ovulated on Monday. Which, when I o I only have the egg white substance for 1 to 1 1/2 days. And, since sperm can survive inside you for up to 3 days there is a chance you could become pregnant. However, you would not be albe to find out for about another 2 weeks.

I'll check hotmail tonight Milissa, and may be on for a bit tomorrow. Talk to you all then.

Hey. I just do not know what to say to him anymore. if i start crying, he just says that it is nothing to cry over. he is just so difficult. you know something else? we made love last night, only, he used a condom. of course. i had trouble getting wet though. could that be because my period is ending or because of what is going on with me personally? you know, how i am feeling and everything? he just does not listen though. he does, but he doesn't. you understand? i guess he just does not care? could that be? i know he loves me. he knows that i love him. why doesn't he listen? i listen to him when he wants something. he normally gets what he wants. yes, he has bought stuff for me that i have wanted, but the one thing i truly want, he does not want me to have it. atleast not right now. he hasn't for the past couple years. i can tell you exactly how i feel right now. ok, carter is not my hubby's birth son. carters birth father has nothing to do with us. he is not a part of our lives. how is it that he gave me a baby and my hubby will not? not only do i miss being pregnant, but i want rex(my hubby) and me to have a baby together. am i wrong for this? he has told me that he does not know why he is not ready yet. and not only that , but when he told me that he was concidering it, i asked him what made him concider it. he said he did not know. i just do not understand why he can not give me a reason. what is goin on inside of his head? in his heart? could he be afraid of something? if he is, i do not know what it would be. i just wish he could see how bad i want another baby. i wish he could see how bad the wait is hurting me.

I'm Sorry AMY but you are not the ONE! if he cannot give you a reason, HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO U"...Face it GIRL there is not going to be a baby anytime soon or maybe at all...AND THIS as all came from men..I have done some asking!! They don't even need to lnow how long you have been together HE"S JUST NOT THAT INTO come out of all there mouths.. and I have to agree...you need to stop with all this baby shit with him or he will end up leaving...

Hi Amy, I actually agree with Milissa. I think even though you're married you're hubby is afreaid of committment and having a baby is a life long commitment. Yes marriage is supposed to be but, many people don't see it that way since you can get a divorce so easily and so many people do. I think that if you've expressed how hurt you are and how desprately you want aonther (and he FULLY understands your desires) then he doesn't care. I don't think you're on the same page on where you see your family going. I hope that you guys can have a long conversation on where you think you're going.

One other thing I was thinging about... Wehn we first got pregnant with Hunter I had told Nate that I wanted to get off bc so we could try in a year for a baby. He said he wasn't ready and I would always tell him we never would be. So, I kept telling him monthly "I'm going to stop taking my bc in April". He would laugh it off though. Then May came around and I told him "I didn't get my bc renewed" and his response was not to run out and by condoms but to say "ok". Then together we went and bought condoms just to let the bc run out of my system. See, the thing is - we had both discussed having children and that we did actually want some so I knew we were both on the same page.

I agree with Mel! My husband and I talk about having another baby when I turned 25. Stevie is getting older and we want him to have a bother or sister..There was a new baby in the family and we just looked at each other and we both new! You and your husband have communication issues!! And either you damanding a baby or he just clearly does not want a child with you or never want kids...DID you ever talk about this before marriage??? Listen this has to END either you need a hobby or a new man that wants kids..I know this is a place to vent BUT the hole I want a baby and my husbnad does not thing is getting OLD! We can not help you anymore than we have amy.. sorry if harsh but the truth hurts sometimes and somebody on here needs to say this too u! Good luck

i just started my seventh month of clomid. my dr says its fine, but i am worried because i have never heard of anyone being on it for this long. we have been trying for a year and a half with no luck. Has anyone else taken clomid for longer than six cycles?

JO>> No sorry 2 of the girls have just recently started clomid ( one of them a little longer I believe) Maybe you should find a different doctor too see what they have to say?? God bless and good luck!!

Hi Amy. I was talking to my hubby about your situation the other day. He had brought up some good points. First he wondered if you had told your hubby that you want to have a baby WITH HIM? I told him I thought you had, but he said to make sure that you get that point across. The next thing he mentioned is that your hubby might be scared to have a child with you in fear that he may love the child between the two of you more than he already loves your son. Just some things to ponder. Hope you guys were able to talk even a little this weekend.

Good morning all! :-) I'll be on and off today. Hope everyone had a good weekend. Ours was cold and rainy. I am so sick of not seeing the sun! Today is my last day of my first month on clomid. My dr. told us to try on day 8, 10, 12, etc and yesterday was day 8 so, we are officially starting for this month. Hope it works for at least one of us. :-) How is everybody feeling?