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Thank you so much Stacey!!! :) Lisa I am with ya I also was told thati to ovulate and blood work was good to go. Stacey I am right behind you. I am on cd 10. 1 day difference. So sorry J Michelle, I understand completely. It' sad.. I also feel cranky sometimes Stacey. All of us are going through phases of depression, stress and anxiety. Why does it feel like I am getting punished? Or am I? I am with ya ladies. Sometimes I go on Yahoo Infertility Support chatroom. It doesnt help though after all these years. You have so many who claim to be infertile but have like 2-3 kids. Then they sit and brag anout their pregnancies. Perfect example is one chick who finally got pregnant instead of knowing and realizing others still trying she continue to brag. You dont talk about babynames in a Infertility chatroom. Or bragging how ya gonna fix up your nursery. I just dont go in there that much anymore. It is wonderful some of them succeeded. And also sad that we have to sit and listen to the succeeders in a roon. When you ask them questions its like they dont know you anymore. Sorry ladies I know its long. :)
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Well, the doc. said my tests were ok, no PCOS, but low TSH level which could mean hyperactive thyroid...of course, it's Friday so the drs aren't around today- I called my endocrinologist and she's on vacation, tried to call my obgyn back to ask a few questions and he's gone for the day--so, I am still in the unknown realm. SIGH! It's never easy (but the hyperactive thyroid can be causing my irritability, and my long cycles along w/ scant periods...so we'll see (also causes infertility)
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I will say my name when i feel like it. but, i do believe that i have the right for privacy. And, i do believe that i have the right to get support from others instead of being told to shut up with my problems. Atleast, i thought that is what this site was for. Instead, someone thought that their problems were more important and that i needed to shut up. I just wanted someone to talk to. I just wanted people to understand me. But I have come to find out that maybe no one understands me or my feelings. I do have feelings though. and it hurt my feelings when i came to this site expecting support and got told to shut up and get over it instead. I am not trying to cause anything ok? I just feel that I have just as much right for support as anyone else in here. Something else that i would like to mention is that bad mothers are not the only ones who get pg without trying. I for one am a good mother. I did get pregnant with my son 3 years ago and i was not trying. BUT, never in this world would i say he was a mistake. as a matter of fact, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. It is because of my son why i have changed who i used to be. i believe that it was gods will for me to have my son when i did. i was looking for someone to love me, but i was looking in the wrong way. then, i got pregnant with my son and realized that i would have someone to love me no matter what. i love my son and never regret having him. if it were not for my son, there is no telling where i would be today. my son has given me the life i had once only dreamed of. now, it is reality. not only do i have someone to love me, but i have someone who needs me. i am ready to have another baby however. my husband though, is not ready. I will just continue to wait for him. it hurts, but the wait will be worth it in the end. my husband is not the birth father of my son. but, he is daddy. has been since carter was 4 months old. and i want a baby by him. i am not trying to say that carter is not good enough for me. no way shape or form. i just want another baby, and i want the baby from my husband. i did not have my sons birth father there when i went into labor. i did not even know where he was or how to get ahold of him. my sister cut the imbulicle cord. (i think i spelled that right. if not, sorry.) I had two of my best friends there with me. each one holding my hand. i had god with me also. the only person not there was the one who should have been there. i want a baby from my husband and i want him to be there for me. i did not get that last time. it does hurt. i know that i am not the only one who has gone through this situation and i am sure that i am not the last. I hope that no one thinks i am being rude. i am not trying to be rude. i just wanted to get all that out ok? I do not want anyone to feel sorry for me. i just want someone to understand where i am coming from. to understand what i want and why i want it. i want another baby because i want another baby and i have always had the dream to have 2 children. i want another baby with my husband, i know he would be there with me through out the whole thing. that is something i did not have when i was pregnant with my son. I know that my husband would not regret it either. he would be there with me, holding my hand. he would not be off with someone else denying his child. he would be at my side waiting for his child. i did not have that before. i want that. is that wrong? I am sorry for this being so long. but i had to speak my mind. i had to vent. I wish everyone the best of luck and god bless. take care.
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hi anonomous,
you are absolutely right and i dont blame you for not saying your name there were some hurtful things said on the site but there are also some wonderful people you can turn to as well.....nobody has the right to tell you to shut up or get over it, i read your venting session and wanted to cry, i am sooooo emotional and going through absolute hell today so i know what i feels like to hurt and just want to speak your mind! and what your asking for and wanting you very well deserve! theres nothing worng with that, god bless you and i wish you the best!
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Wow I am completely loss, but oh well. I hear that Stacey. These docs never around when you have questions on a Friday. I'm with ya anonomous i feel your pian. Ladies Venting isnt a bad thing. I thought so but instead nagging someones ear I feel free to do it on here. Far as we all know we are all anonomous really. Nobody know our real names so many people with the same first name hehe. But its okay to express whatever you want. I get upset alot know I ovulated but no baby Arrrghhhh why meee? But anyway TGIF and I am going to enjoy my weekend and days off work Yippeee BD BD baby dancing lolwish ya luck guys.
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Damn finger fart sorry about the (sp?) Pain* and knowing dammit I am confusing myself. Jeez lol later ladies
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Anon, I know who you are, and the post you're talking about. I know she was very rude with what she said. She was the one who brought my attention to this site, and I liked her. But when I saw what she said to you, I lost all respect for her. I know most of the people on this site are women who are stressed and emotional. No one deserves to be talked to like that. I hope you can feel more comfortable after this. I wish you luck.
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Girls, just wanted to say thanks for letting me vent here- it helped alot.
Anonomous - I am sorry that people are fools, I have also been hurt on this site- as a matter of fact, it's why I don't go to other strands alot. I don't think people mean to hurt (or for me they didn't), but they are ignorant sometimes...please don't feel like leaving- I tried, but like the support that some people can give, I have met many people here, from all over the world, and feel like I have made some friends along the way- some of us email too. What I am trying to say is that even though some are jerks, there is more good here!
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Amen to that Stacey, I totally agree. Some people dont know any better. They need to get a life or plain and simple dont have one. They not happy so they wanna make you unhappy some way. But we are stronger than that. Lets get on with this BD TTC. I actually like this site it has help me be confident more than before. I truly am happy to have met so many women on the same boat as me. We are in this together. So lets support one another. Take care until then... *+*+*+*+Babydust*+*+*+*+*+
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I agree Dreama. Before I found this site I was completely STRESSING about not getting pg. Now, although I get disappointed when I see those bfn's it doesn't devistate me because I know I'm not the only one going through it.
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MelissaS I'm with ya. Even though the stuggle is hard hubby is always gonna be here for me no matter what. I just wish it would happen for us. Every month that passes I get sad but now I feel its another month to try again and again. well ladies just popping in to say Hi and hope all is well.
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Good morning girls! I am needing support today. I just feel like crying! I just found out that a friend is pg. While I am happy for her it just kills me because she and I were pg with our first together. She deliverd 4 weeks ahead of me. And, if I would have conceived when I first started we would be right around the same time again. Hearing about pg women has never affected me like hearing she is. Ughhhhh. I am just holding back the tears. And, while my hubby is supportive he's still a guy and tries to make light of the subject and tell me I'm not pg because we don't have enough sex. I know he's just trying to cheer me up, but it doesn't work. :-(
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Don't cry MelissaS I been through it. Yesterday as for me I went to reserve the bowling alley for a party for hubby's b-day and a friend of mine who just had a baby was with me,, After all the reservations, we went to order a b-day cake then headed over to her house. Her newborn was so beautiful. Her knowing that I want a child she handed the baby to me. Beautiful little girl. I almost cried because I didnt know how it felt to be a Mother with an aamazing miracle in my arms. I fed her and then laid her to rest. I felt low, ya know? I felt my heart was crushed. AND all the sorrow I put behind me came back. I started to feel down again, unaccepted, and my selft esteem went BOOOOOM!!! to the core of this earth. After I left her house seeing my precious husband and how happy he was to see me. That feeling went away. It was like she was trying to train me with the baby, feeding, how to hold her, etc. Hmmm knowing I tell her all of whats going on with me TTC. But it's okay, I am still living on. Today I surpose to Ovulate, lets see what happens CD14 Best wishes ladies. Take Care
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Hey Dreama. That was nice of your friend. It doesn't seem like she was trying to rub it in your face at all, but trying to make you feel better. But, even so it makes all the hurt come back. I'm sorry you too were feeling low yesterday. What a day. Today I'm still a little low but not bad. :-) Hope you have a better day today. By the way, what branch are you in? I (and my hubby) was in the Navy. :-)
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Hey all. Here is an article that I found that could possibly help us all cope a little. Check it out. http://www.babycenter.com/dilemma/pr
econception/gettingpregnant/1322486.
html?scid=preconception:20050613:0:0
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We're dual Military (Army) actually I ETS so no more Iraq for me. I am ready to TTC. Even got off the Depo. Today I am planning the surprise party for hubby. So far so good. Yeah she is a good friend but just the feelings came back for a second, but otherwise I AM Okay :) Talk to ya soon. 10:49pm here and jerry is about to come on lol Take care MelissaS. :)
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