Dad to be never home
3 Replies
eggrole - August 23

I am 26 weeks pregnant and it seems that the dad to be is never around. He has a motorcycle and has made some friends in another state that he goes and rides with. Last week he was out till after I was asleep 6 out of 8 nights. Usually till 2:00 in the morning. It seems like he is rebeling or something. He says he loves me and is happy that we are going to be a family, but I am beginning to feel very lonely. What should I do. I am hoping this is just a phase, how do I know?


monica - September 11

stop thinking about him as this may affect your baby.if he doesn't come home on time, so be it!your baby needs you and i think that's more important than anything else.


isabelle - September 11

he doesn't deserve to be a dad! i think it's much better that he's not around cause he's very irresponsible knowing that he's already going to be a dad soon.


maryparrish - July 7

I cannot even imagine anything like that. My hubby was always around before I got pregnant. He does not even leave me alone when I am about to give a birth to our child. I have all his attention, time, and efforts. No offence, but I just think that he is either irresponsible for real or scared for real. Have a sit and talk to him. There is no issue that can be solved. I was annoyed with my husband being all over me all the time. We talked together and decided both of us need some kind of private space. For example, time with friends not in common. Speak to each other. It is simple as that. You have no other choice to be honest. Even if you found out he does not care, what can you do for now? I believe nothing, because you do not want to leave yourself as a single mom. You need to focus on explaining him how important it is to be a father and a loving husband. I truly believe one day he would understand how wrong he was, leaving you alone!



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