Surrogacy or not?
7 Replies
Jasmine.Flower - October 18

Hi people! I feel really lucky to find this platform to share my feelings with other women having problems similar to mine. Many of my family members and a few people in my social circle have passed very harsh comments on my condition and I feel very upset and disappointing about it. I hope it is not the same here and I get to read positive comments. Children make the bond very strong between a husband and wife, and they also complete a family. My bond with my husband is weakening with the passage of time and I don’t have a complete family because I can never have my own children. Although I am totally fertile. Yes it’s true. It is my heart disease, and I was diagnosed with it after a year of my marriage. I am really concerned about my condition. I have been having my treatment from past few years but still unsuccessful. I don’t know how much more time will it take to get cured. My colleague has recently told me about surrogacy. I am now considering it my second option. I am also a bit confused about it. Can anyone guide me about the details of expense related to any clinic you know? What tests are required and is there any package with less expense? These details will help me to make my decision. Looking forward to the useful advice. Take care everyone!

 

adney - October 18

Hello Jasmine Flower, I am glad that you are satisfied to share your feelings with the people of this forum. Do not get underestimate yourself because of other people. People will never understand about through what you are going. You will be definitely getting positive comments here. Your friend has suggested you right about surrogacy. Don’t get confused, as surrogacy is one of the wonderful options to have a baby. Surrogacy is the very expensive procedure if you are living in America. It is comparatively cheap in other countries like Ukraine, Czech Republic and South Africa. I know a clinic which is best in terms of money and services both. It will cost you less expensive in these countries. The necessary tests include analysis of male sperms, serology test, and blood test. They will check your hormonal levels. They provide all medical services inclusive of surrogacy’s procedure package. Don’t take surrogacy as your second option. In my opinion, it is the best procedure through which you will be able to have your baby.

 

Tara123 - October 19

Surrogacy is a great solution for us women who are unable to have children for any reason. There are clinics available that offer spectacular services. All you need to do is get some tests done. Next, the clinic shortlists some surrogate mothers based on your requirements. Then you need to donate eggs and sperm. These are then fertilized and implanted in the surrogate mother. These simple steps are all it takes to help end our misery. Infertility or other reasons to not have children can now be rectified easily.

 

Isida - October 27

Hello, Jasmine.Flower.
Your story is pretty popular. A lot of women are suffering from infertility because of some disease. In your case you can conceive but it can be too dangerous for your life. That’s even worse. Infertile couples use it to enlarge their families. And what is the most important, it really works. I know a lot of couples, which are happy parents now thanks to the surrogacy. This service is getting very popular worldwide.
The only thing I know for sure is that you have to hurry up. Your husband won’t wait for ever. You know that he wants to have kids. And you are unable to help him. This can be very dangerous for your marriage. A lot of couples divorce because of infertility. Unfortunately, the statistics doesn’t lie.
First of all, discuss this option with your husband. Tell him that it’s a great solution for you. The price for the surrogacy is pretty high. I recommend you to choose some reproduction centers in Europe. Prices there are more affordable. Also, they offer different packages. It lets you choose the most appropriate price for you. Unfortunately, the cheapest package doesn’t guarantee that the surrogate will get pregnant. Try to choose the package with multiple tries. It guarantees that you will come back home with your baby.
After you choose the reproduction center you will have to go through the examinations. If everything’s fine, they will find the surrogate for you. In a couple of months the embryo will betransferred and you will have to wait. I’m sure you will get a positive result. If you really want to have kids, go ahead and do everything possible.

 

jirrammissa - October 28

Hi Jasmine Flower, I hope people start understanding the pain of not being able to get mother. Obviously, nobody does that on purpose but people will not understand it at all. Please ignore the comments of those people and do not stress yourself. The tests that are required to undergo the surrogacy procedure are an analysis of male sperms, serology test, blood test and hormonal level test. The surrogacy procedure is expensive in America. In some clinics, all your tests will be package inclusive. It will cost you less. I would suggest you to definitely opt for surrogacy because of its high success rate.

 

jirrammissa - October 31

Hello Jasmine Flower, I think you have made a right of choice to share your problems on this forum. I am sure that you will be getting the best possible advice. Many women on this forum are fighting their battles against infertility. They will understand your feelings in a better way. No one will comment harshly on your situation as if normal people do. However, stop worrying about those people who pass rude comments. You and I have a similar disease. I am also suffering from a heart valve disease. My doctor told me to not to get pregnant as it would be dangerous for the baby and me. I knew how bad I wanted to become a mother but I was not able to. Then I came to know about surrogacy and now I have a baby of two years old. I would advise you to go for surrogacy. Examination of your husband’s sperms, your blood test, serology test and hormone test will be done. You will not be charged extra for these tests. These are package inclusive. I hope you have a baby soon. Good luck.

 

jyrrellukex - October 31

Hi Jasmine Flower, You have chosen the best platform to share your feelings. People here very friendly and gives the best advice and suggestions. You will surely feel better after discussing your feelings and problems with people on this forum. You should not consider the harsh comments of those people. Simply ignore them and stay strong. I am also suffering from a heart valve disease. I was not allowed to conceive by my doctor so I chose surrogacy to have a baby. If you are living in America then surrogacy is very expensive here as compared to other countries. I know a clinic from where I got my surrogacy procedure done is the pocket-friendly clinic. They do not charge you for the tests they take before officially starting the procedure. Those tests are package inclusive. Different kinds of tests are required. You and your husband, both have to take those tests. They will examine your blood, hormonal level. You have to take another test that is serology. They will examine the sperms of your husband. Based on the results of these tests, a further procedure will be done.

 

jyrrellukex - October 31

Hi Jasmine Flower, I wish people would understand that how it feels to not to become a mother. You should stop bothering those people. What do doctors say about your health progress? I think your friend has given you the best advice. Surrogacy is one of the best procedures to have your own baby. Surrogacy is costly in the United States of America. However, it is affordable in some other countries like Ukraine, South Africa, and India. You have to take few tests like blood test, your husband’s sperm test and serology test. Discuss with your family about surrogacy and go for it.

 

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