Infertility? Hrmmm.
6 Replies
CountryGal - October 14

Well I thought I'd see other peoples thoughts.

My husband are I are not trying get pregnant. However I thought it was a bit weird that we don't use protection and haven't for nearly 2 years, I also don't take the pill.

Im only 22 and Im over weight, but have started going to the gym and have always eaten healthy. Hubbys not infertile as he has a child from a previous relationship.

But in the past I've stupidly not used protection with other guys (well before I met hubby) and not fallen pregnant then either....

Hence why I dont bother with the pill or protection.

Ive never had a pap smear and a test tonight for protein in my urine showed that I dont have protein in my urine but I am moderate to high with blood in my urine.


Thoughts????

Im a tad confused, and too scared to see a doctor as I dont want to hear bad news.

 

HannahR - October 17

Hey girl, I'm 23 years old and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now. I never thought i would be having this problem but it is what it is. I hate going to doctors as well but I have to and so should you sometimes it's not as big as you make it in your mind. so i hope that you can find it in you to pick up the phone and call a doctor and because once you do that you can be on the path to fixing what is wrong and you will have more peace of mind
Lots of luck, Hannah

 

chely17cs - October 24

hey... i just turned 23 years old... and taking the first steps is always hard... but it's best to know whats going on with your body now so u can relax... otherwise the stress will be there... and not to say anything wrong but i was he same as you 2 years no condom and no pills... so i finally went to the doctor and i have Polycystic Ovaries... just go get checked it will make you feel alot better...

 

Isabelmason - October 15

Here is Isabel. I felt pain and destroying when I got know that I am suffering from cancer. This even becomes more depressing when I got to see that it is an ovarian tumor. Further, I could not conceive after that. This was the fact which I accepted so hard. I did not even imagine of that. This painful event becomes the part of my life. It destroyed me. Also after that, I got separated. Things changes and my second husband left me alone because I can’t deliver him a child. My third spouse is caring one. But I could not replenish my hubby with the happiness of having a child. May there would be magic, and everything could become more accessible and satisfying. May each and everything would be a dream. But is not.

 

adney - October 16

Hello, Hannah, I hope you are not depressed because you cannot get pregnant. What did your doctors say about it? What is the barrier in your pregnancy? Why don’t you go for surrogacy? A surrogate mother will carry your baby. The clinic will use your husband’s sperms and your eggs. They will infuse the embryo in the surrogate mother. This way you can have your biological child

 

Isabelmason - October 17

Hello Jasmine. We are all good here. Your story is similar to mine. But I am not fertile as I had ovarian cancer. Most of my friends told me to get surrogacy as I was infertile. Most of them got treated from surrogacy. But my age factor is a barrier for me as I am 40 years old. If I got treated from surrogacy, I wouldn't be able to conceive due to my age. You still have hope. I would suggest you visit a surrogacy clinic. I visited and collected information but didn’t go there because I was scared. As I already lost two of my marriages, I don’t want to lose another one. But I would suggest you go there and get your self-treated. There is still hope, and you will get a positive response.

 

Isida - October 27

Hello, dear. I think you should visit your doctor asap. No one here can really help you figure out the reason of your infertility. It often happens that women need medical help to conceive. What if this is your case? If your gyno says that you are pretty fine, I recommend you to find the fertility specialist. You will go through different examinations. They will help you to find out the reason of failed ttc. It's been a long time since you started your tries. I think it is time to do smth.
By the way, did you discuss this situation with your husband? It is very important for a woman to have a supporting husband. He should go to the reproduction center with you. You will be less stressed out. It helps.

 

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